# Project Patch > Restoring Hope to Teens • Building Thriving Families > Generated by All in One SEO Pro v5.0.3, this is an llms.txt file, used by LLMs to index the site. ## Sitemaps - [XML Sitemap](https://projectpatch.org/sitemap.xml): Contains all public & indexable URLs for this website. ## Posts - [Todays Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/blog/todaysfamilyexperience/) - [Wise: How to Discipline when your Kids are Listening](https://projectpatch.org/wise-how-to-discipline-when-your-kids-are-listening/): With all of these kids, you adjust to their need; and, because of that, the discussion is going to look and feel very different for different kids. - [The Six-Step Apology (Pt 6)](https://projectpatch.org/six-step-apology-pt-6/): It isn't easy but I can tell you that opening yourself up to the truth of how you impact the people around you can be one of the most humbling and powerful things you can do. - [The Six-Step Apology (Pt 5)](https://projectpatch.org/six-step-apology-pt-5/): The most important reality for us as human beings is, "I can't do this by myself." It is at this point that being in a relationship with God and others can help us do what we couldn't do on our own. - [The Six-Step Apology (Pt 4)](https://projectpatch.org/the-six-step-apology-pt-4/): It's a choice of the other person to forgive or not. You ask for their forgiveness because you want it, but you demonstrate that they hold the power and choice to forgive, not you. - [The Six-Step Apology (Pt 3)](https://projectpatch.org/the-six-step-apology-pt-3/): As a parent what we really want is our kids to actually be sorry when they cause another to hurt. We pray desperately that they have a conscience, to know when they hurt another, and to care deeply. - [The Six-Step Apology (Pt 2)](https://projectpatch.org/the-six-step-apology-pt-2/): Once we accept responsibility great things can happen. And so the second step in the Six-Step Apology is key because it establishes ownership and sets the stage for restoration. - [The Six-Step Apology (Pt 1)](https://projectpatch.org/the-six-step-apology-pt-1/): Two things are necessary before you apologize: The offense - the act, words, inaction, or decisions that hurt another person. Knowing that you hurt another person. - [The Six-Step Apology (Intro)](https://projectpatch.org/the-six-step-apology-intro/): When we swing from anger to appeasement it creates an environment in which it is difficult for relationships to exist. We need a process of restoration. - [Question Before Discipline: Wise or Foolish](https://projectpatch.org/question-before-discipline-wise-or-foolish/): As a parent, our job when getting ready to discipline our kids is to determine what is going to be most helpful for our kid. - [Foolish: How to Discipline when your Kids are NOT Listening](https://projectpatch.org/foolish-how-to-discipline-when-your-kids-are-not-listening/): The great news is that for kids that are foolish, a combination of natural and logical consequences works. - [Asking Great Questions (Pt. 4)](https://projectpatch.org/asking-great-questions-pt-4/): So, what fuels your family? What fuels you to want to be together rather than apart? What holds your family to your goals? - [Asking Great Questions (Pt 2)](https://projectpatch.org/asking-great-questions-pt-2/): Identifying and pursuing success as a parent and family are difficult and that is precisely why we need to ask great questions rather than fixate on being the expert and providing answers. - [Asking Great Questions (Pt 1)](https://projectpatch.org/asking-great-questions-pt-1/): One of the reasons that curiosity is quenched is that our education system focuses on teaching kids to answer questions, how to test well rather than ask questions. - [Asking Great Questions (Pt 3)](https://projectpatch.org/asking-great-questions-pt-3/): Being in close relationships takes a lot of effort and it is even harder when we are stressed physically, emotionally, financially, and spiritually. - [Surviving the Holidays - When Your In-laws Are As Crazy As Your Parents](https://projectpatch.org/surviving-the-holidays-when-your-in-laws-are-as-crazy-as-your-parents-2/): The holidays can be complicated. Complicated things require a plan. Don't be a victim when your in-laws are as crazy as your parents.. Make a plan. - [What If Every Sin Had A Smell?](https://projectpatch.org/what-if-every-sin-had-a-smell/): Perfectionism can keep us from getting the help we need. There are risks of "hidden" struggles, and sin makes us focus on perfection over connection. - [Would you rather talk about sex or money?](https://projectpatch.org/wouldyou-rather-talk-to-your-kids-about-sex-or-money/): Parents prefer to talk about neither sex or money with their children. How can parents have open, honest, and important conversations with their kids? - [Roger Van Santen](https://projectpatch.org/roger-van-santen/) - [Steve and Lanae Johnson](https://projectpatch.org/steve-and-lanae-johnson/) - [James Smith](https://projectpatch.org/james-smith/) - [Terry Mace](https://projectpatch.org/terry-mace/) - [Dena Meigs](https://projectpatch.org/dena-meigs/) - [Tim Pottle](https://projectpatch.org/tim-pottle/) - [Steve Walikonis](https://projectpatch.org/steve-walikonis/) - [Barry Kimbrough](https://projectpatch.org/barry-kimbrough/) - [Maureen and Roger Dowling](https://projectpatch.org/maureen-and-roger-dowling/) - [Sheri Mc Danie](https://projectpatch.org/sheri-mc-danie/) - [Rhonda Heyn](https://projectpatch.org/rhonda-heyn/) - [Dan McCulloch](https://projectpatch.org/dan-mcculloch/) - [Dan & Sharon O'Reilly](https://projectpatch.org/dan-sharon-oreilly/) - [Diana Sanford Fitzimons Tull](https://projectpatch.org/diana-sanford-fitzimons-tull/) - [Nancy Krohn Colon](https://projectpatch.org/nancy-krohn-colon/) - [Brian Barbour](https://projectpatch.org/brian-barbour/) - [Carol Meharry](https://projectpatch.org/carol-meharry/) - [Journaling for Spiritual Growth: A conversation with Marc Schelske](https://projectpatch.org/journaling-for-spiritual-growth-a-conversation-with-marc-schelske/): An interview with Marc Schelske, our journaling coach for spiritual growth. We know we should journal but it's not easy to do. This podcast will help. - [The Wisdom Of Your Heart - an interview with Marc Schelske](https://projectpatch.org/the-wisdom-of-your-heart-with-marc-schelske/): Emotions can give us valuable information leading to positive action but many times we aren't listening. Marc Schelske about discovering the wisdom in emotion. - [Is anger sad's bodyguard?](https://projectpatch.org/is-anger-sads-bodyguard/): Is Liza Palmer right?"Angry is just sad's bodyguard." This episode explores the relationship between anger and sadness. - [What to Do when Consequences Aren't Working](https://projectpatch.org/what-to-do-when-consequences-arent-working/): One of the hardest things about discipline is that there are times in which it just doesn't seem to be working. Even worse, it may just seem to be making things harder for you, rather than for them. - [Parent of Fomer Client](https://projectpatch.org/parent-of-fomer-client/) - [Current Client](https://projectpatch.org/current-client/) - [Former Client](https://projectpatch.org/former-client/) - [We Believe](https://projectpatch.org/we-believe/) - [Going Back to the Vomit](https://projectpatch.org/going-back-to-the-vomit/) - [A Self Centered Perspective on Forgiveness](https://projectpatch.org/a-self-centered-perspective-on-forgiveness/): There aren’t too many things in this world that you can give to other people and get big benefits for yourself. Yes, there are some of you that really love giving gifts rather than receiving but I’m really not like you, I like getting things. I’ve written a lot about the power of apologizing when The weight of holding onto anger can often hold us back from achieving our true happiness, what would life look like to release that anger and truly forgive those who hurt us? - [Long Term Impact](https://projectpatch.org/long-term-impact/): I was lucky to spend the day with some of the boys from the Youth Ranch touring Mission Aviation Fellowship (MAF). What an amazing organization made up of people who purposely choose to do hard things. Before the tour I knew a little about the story of the tragedy when Nate Saint and four other We often focus on our end goals but we fail to look at what it takes to reach those goals. Consistency in the little steps, both in reaching our goals and in parenting our kids, leads to great success. - [Growth Enemy: Trying to be Worthy](https://projectpatch.org/growth-enemy-trying-to-be-worthy/): “You’d better hustle!” This is the kind of warning that I remember getting from coaches. Hustle is kind of a weird word. It’s much more frantic than hurry and has the idea tied to it of time running out and only getting one chance. I’ve been reading (let me know if you get tired of Do you find yourself striving to please people and in the process you are unable to find your own worthiness? What is the real impact of people-pleasing behaviors on you and your kids? - [Truth is Stranger than TV](https://projectpatch.org/truth-is-stranger-than-tv/): When I've watched people baring their souls on talk shows, I've often wondered two things. First, are these people and their stories real. Second, why are they sharing such personal stuff on TV? I've never spent much time around "reality TV" or talk shows, and so I was more than nervous when I was invited to The truth is often not what you see on TV, but how do you take the experiences you see on TV and work to help those who are suffering in real life? - [You Have Less Than 18 Minutes](https://projectpatch.org/you-have-less-than-18-minutes/): Your kids can’t listen past 18 minutes I’ve been working on my presentation skills lately and came across a book called, “Talk Like TED: The 9 Public-Speaking Secrets of the World's Top Minds,” by Carmine Gallo. This book studies the most impactful TED talks and shares principles that every presenter can use to make a bigger You have 18 minutes worth of conversation with your teen before they lose interest, how do you make the most of those few minutes to make an impact with your kid? - [Changing Your Mind](https://projectpatch.org/changing-your-mind/): That’s Not Fair! Kids have an amazing ability to quickly judge whether something is fair or not. I remember my dad doing the cup experiment on us when I was little. Since it's been about 36 years ago, I’m going to take some artistic liberty in telling the story. He set up the experiment by Kids need consistency, but how do parents change their minds without undermining the consistency and trust that their kids need? - [Do Good Parents Let Their Kids Blow Through Money?](https://projectpatch.org/do-good-parents-let-their-kids-blow-through-money/): I've been reading "Smart Money Smart Kids: Raising the Next Generation to Win with Money" by Dave Ramsey and Rachel Cruze, and just to make things clear up front, I think you should buy the book right away, especially since if you pre-order by April 21 you get a bunch of bonus stuff. Dave Ramsey Every person tends to be a spender or a saver, and each of your kids has one of these traits. How do you teach your spender to save and your saver to spend a little? - [Why Ancient Noah's Faith Still Matters](https://projectpatch.org/why-ancient-noahs-faith-still-matters/): The world’s abuzz about “Noah” opening this Friday, March 28. So, how do we discuss the movie with family and friends? In this guest blog post, my friend David Sanford points the way. Guest Post by David Sanford - [Teaching Your Kids When to Laugh](https://projectpatch.org/teaching-your-kids-when-to-laugh/): Our brains are really helpful in protecting us, but not very good at noticing that what just happened was funny. - [Generous Kids](https://projectpatch.org/generous-kids-prosperous-kids/): Is generosity something natural for our kids, like the color of their eyes or a quirky sense of humor? Or is it something that’s developed, like work-ethic, forgiveness, and communication? - [Your Kids Should Talk to Strangers](https://projectpatch.org/your-kids-should-talk-to-strangers/): We can help our kids be prepared for being great adults and less vulnerable to strangers as kids. We can protect our kids by teaching them to talk to strangers. - [Life Ready Kids - Know When NOT to Laugh](https://projectpatch.org/life-ready-kids-know-when-not-to-laugh/): One of the hardest things for us as parents is to react to what is going on in our kid's hearts and minds rather than jumping to conclusions based on their behavior. We need to be helpful in both areas. - [Life Ready Kids - Good With The Obvious](https://projectpatch.org/life-ready-kids-good-with-the-obvious/): In order to be life ready, our kids need to be good with the obvious. That means that they can see the obvious, and even more importantly, they can act on the obvious. - [Life Ready Kids - Decisive Without Being Impulsive](https://projectpatch.org/life-ready-kids-decisive-without-being-impulsive-2/): Allow them to make choices when it doesn’t involve a safety issue or deal with deciding age appropriateness. When they bring a choice to you, rather than solving it, help them work through the following steps of good decisions: - [Life Ready Kids - Negotiate, Not Manipulate](https://projectpatch.org/life-ready-kids-negotiate-not-manipulate/): How do you teach this to your kids? Model it whenever you can. Don't right all their wrongs. Coach them to work things out with friends and teachers. Practice makes perfect. - [Life Ready Kids - Losing Without Being a Loser](https://projectpatch.org/life-ready-kids-losing-without-being-a-loser/): It seems counterintuitive, but the reality for the 'best of the best' is that they have won more than the average person and also have lost more than the average person. - [Building Thriving Families and Restoring Hope to Teens](https://projectpatch.org/read-our-newest-blog-post/) - [Be A Part Of The Miracle](https://projectpatch.org/be-a-part-of-the-miracle/) - [Join Us For Our Next Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/upcoming-seminars/) - [See Us On Dr. Phil](https://projectpatch.org/see-us-on-dr-phil/) - [A Simple Request](https://projectpatch.org/a-last-minute-request/): If this blog has been helpful and encouraging for you, would you consider giving a special, last-minute gift of support to Project Patch? Make a donation online today. - [Life Ready Kids - Winning Well](https://projectpatch.org/life-ready-kids-winning-well/): How do you help your kid handle their wins like a champion? - [Life Ready Kids - The Foundation](https://projectpatch.org/life-ready-kids-the-foundation/): Getting kids to be "life ready" requires teaching, modeling, and coaching on the part of the parent. Some of it is taught, other parts are caught, and it always takes practice. - [Helping Your Family Find 'Normal' During The Holiday Chaos](https://projectpatch.org/helping-your-family-find-normal-during-the-holiday-chaos/): Kids crave two things. Consistency and inconsistency. A predictable environment feels safe, reduces anxiety, and helps develop cause-and-effect thinking. Inconsistency is fun. - [Family Stories](https://projectpatch.org/family-stories-2/): Are you putting as much thought into your conversations with your family? No, you don’t need to start an interrogation, but why not learn a bit more about your family before it’s too late? - [Helping Your Kids With Their Choices: Getting Beyond Two Choices](https://projectpatch.org/helping-your-kids-with-their-choices-getting-beyond-two-choices/): First, simply searching for a third option helps us realize that we aren't screw-ups. We are capable of figuring things out. If a parent solves the problem, we only reinforce that kids can't figure things out. - [Helping Your Kids With Nightmares: Planting Good Thoughts](https://projectpatch.org/helping-your-kids-with-nightmares-planting-good-thoughts/): Nightmares, just like dreams, remain a mystery. But you’ll get more sleep with some attention to bedtime routines and planting good thoughts. - [Tempting Shortcuts](https://projectpatch.org/tempting-shortcuts/): Parenting shortcuts are all about getting your kid to do what you want, in the shortest and easiest amount of time. A great shortcut saves you both a bunch of hassle. - [When Your Teen Won't Confess](https://projectpatch.org/when-your-teen-wont-confess/): What do you do as a parent when you know your teen is facing a significant struggle, but isn't ready to talk about it, much less get help for it? - [Mind Reading](https://projectpatch.org/mind-reading/): Someplace, deep within us, we want people to know we are hurting, without us having to tell them. The reality is that the hurts that bother us the most really aren't visible. - [Is Civility Dead?](https://projectpatch.org/is-civility-dead/): Civility may be dying but being respectful, listening even if we disagree, and standing strong for our beliefs. We will have something which others crave, respect. - [When Your Kids are Half Excited and Half Scared](https://projectpatch.org/when-your-kids-are-half-excited-and-half-scared/): Being grownups, we tend to get out of this place of "half excited and half scared". We instead, find a place where we aren't scared, but neither are we excited. - [Surviving the Holidays - When your in-laws are as crazy as your parents](https://projectpatch.org/surviving-the-holidays-when-your-in-laws-are-as-crazy-as-your-parents/): The holiday season isn't just a time to try to keep peace with your extended family. It's time to create your own family traditions. - [No Shortcuts](https://projectpatch.org/no-shortcuts/): Parents need to have their own healthy sexual boundaries. Parents need to be in a close relationship with their kids. Without these two things in place, no amount of monitoring, education, or discipline will help stem the tide of the pornography plague. - [What's Your Goal? Good Kids or Great Adults?](https://projectpatch.org/whats-your-goal-good-kids-or-great-adults/): Yes, I love being around great kids but I agree that just because a kid is good at being a kid doesn't mean he will be good at being an adult. - [The Power of Repeating Important Things](https://projectpatch.org/the-power-of-repeating-important-things/): The reality is that we often lack personal direction and our relationships are uncertain. The power of repletion gives you relationship power that is undeniable. - [When Your Stress Becomes Their Stress](https://projectpatch.org/when-your-stress-becomes-their-stress/): The reality is that parents can get stressed out and that stress seems to hop to our kids and result in some crazy situations. - [Celebrating Family Accomplishments](https://projectpatch.org/celebrating-family-accomplishments/): Our day wouldn't have been as productive, fun, or satisfying if we hadn't done all these things as a family - [Relationships: The Path to Longer, Happier Living - Friends](https://projectpatch.org/relationships-the-path-to-longer-happier-living-friends/): Studies show these kinds of feelings lead to the release of hormones in our brain that gives us a sense of well-being and even invigorates our immune system. - [Relationships: The Path to Longer, Happier Living - Extended Family](https://projectpatch.org/relationships-the-path-to-longer-happier-living-extended-family/): If our extended family is one that gives support and reassurance in the context of truth, it will be a positive force in our lives providing happiness or peace which in turn helps us live longer. - [Getting Your Family to the Next Level](https://projectpatch.org/activefamily/): Many families are capable of doing amazing things yet they are stuck in an awkward and unproductive place. They can't figure out how to make basic decisions and so they never move on to more complicated things. - [Relationships: The Path to Longer, Happier Living - Family Relationships](https://projectpatch.org/relationships-the-path-to-longer-happier-living-family-relationships/): The parenting environment is high in the relationship and good parenting skills, the outcome for young adults’ is stable and satisfying relationships in their early adult marriages as well as romantic relationships. - [Relationships: The Path to Longer, Happier Living - Grandparents and Grandchildren](https://projectpatch.org/relationships-the-path-to-longer-happier-living-grandparents-and-grandchildren/): Grandparents do a good job of affirming or validating their grandchildren. They are usually looking for more of the positive rather than the negative. - [A Perfect Storm](https://projectpatch.org/a-perfect-storm/): There is a storm that they need to protect their kids. Jesus came to give abundance rather than fear. - [Communication Lessons from a One Lane Bridge](https://projectpatch.org/communication-lessons-from-a-one-lane-bridge/): Communication really is a one-lane bridge. There is a crash and wreck if both try to cross at the same time. - [Keeping a Wolf at the Door](https://projectpatch.org/keeping-a-wolf-at-the-door/): His point was that the threat (wolf) keeps us diligent and working together. When we don't feel threatened, we end up becoming separated from one another, complacent and vulnerable. - [Do I Want to Be Like Me? - My experience with a gracious person](https://projectpatch.org/do-i-want-to-be-like-me-my-experience-with-a-gracious-person/): I want to be gracious. Not just on flights when someone is in my seat. I want to assume the best and adjust to other people. Second, I want to not assume the worst about peoples' mistakes. - [Worked Up Over the Wrong Things](https://projectpatch.org/worked-up-over-the-wrong-things/): It's easy to get jaded and cynical, poking holes rather than mending. The result is a whole generation of kids is at risk because we are focused on the wrong things. - [Don't Rain on Their Parade](https://projectpatch.org/dont-rain-on-their-parade/): Here are a few ideas that I've found keep me from bringing the storm home from work. I'd also like to hear what you do to keep from bringing a storm home with you. - [The Celery Test](https://projectpatch.org/the-celery-test/): When perspective for parents is off, we make short-term decisions, work on the wrong things, and tend to confuse our kids. - [Parenting In the Unpredictable Years](https://projectpatch.org/parenting-in-the-unpredictable-years/): We teach a model of development in which overtime a child becomes more responsible for their own safety and behavior (respect and responsibility), and the parent becomes less responsible. - [Hiding is Hard Work](https://projectpatch.org/hiding-is-hard-work/): Hiding is hard work. Doing it during a game is hard but doing it emotionally is even worse. - [Pruning for Growth](https://projectpatch.org/pruning-for-growth/): These are all good things but too many good things mean nothing is done fully. It also zaps the joy out of the moment because the next item is calling. - [Knowing When to Pause](https://projectpatch.org/knowing-when-to-pause/): The hardest time to make good decisions and pause is when emotions are high. It isn't easy but it’s the difference between losing a little bit and making a huge mistake. - [Complexity: A Family Enemy](https://projectpatch.org/complexity-a-family-enemy/): In general, people react in two extreme ways when facing too much complexity. Give up or go into crazy mode. - [Attribute to Others: A Spin on the Golden Rule](https://projectpatch.org/attribute-to-others-a-spin-on-the-golden-rule/): This principle of not assuming the worst about those you deal with can bring so much freedom to your relationships. - [The Rental Principle](https://projectpatch.org/the-rental-principle/): Whether we define success in terms of money, relationships, weight loss, learning, spiritual growth, or a dozen other things, they all have one thing in common: Success can and does go away. - [Where Is God?](https://projectpatch.org/where-is-god/): Hopelessness doesn’t just affect gang members and convicts, it holds us back. God is in this world ministering and healing broken hearts. Care and serve, even when things look hopeless. - [Resistance (Part 4)](https://projectpatch.org/resistance-part-4/): So when you start feeling doubt and perfectionism it is a good time to identify what you are feeling as resistance and take the time to remind yourself what your goals were in the first place. - [Resistance (Part 3)](https://projectpatch.org/resistance-part-3/): Resistance shows up when you are in the middle of change. It shows up at that point that it is too hard to turn around but you don't have the strength or confidence to keep going. - [Resistance (Part 2)](https://projectpatch.org/resistance-part-2/): We can "what if" ourselves into procrastination, but we need to just start. Once we start, we often learn that things aren't as hard as we thought they'd be and that with action comes capability. - [Resistance (Part 1)](https://projectpatch.org/resistance-part-1/): Resistance comes when we decide to do hard things, so we shouldn't be surprised when it shows up. - [Parents First](https://projectpatch.org/parents-first/): I'm encouraging parents to spend less time with their kids as we carefully take the challenge of making sure we are "alive" so we can help them survive this world and its challenges. - [What Is Your Body Saying?](https://projectpatch.org/what-is-your-body-saying/): We focus on what our body position is communicating. Kids are looking for reasons to believe or disbelieve and many times are more in tune with what the body is saying rather than the mouth. - [Perspective: The Closer You Get, the Harder it Is](https://projectpatch.org/perspective-the-closer-you-get-the-harder-it-is/): It's easy to form a strategy and plan for other people's lives but that guy in the mirror is much harder to deal with. It is much easier to deal with other people's unruly kids than my own. - [1/4 Pound at a Time](https://projectpatch.org/14-pound-at-a-time/): Losing weight takes time and focusing on concrete daily tasks. Restoring and building relationships is the same, it takes a long term focus on concrete daily tasks rather than a fixation on results. - [Technology is Attacking My Family!](https://projectpatch.org/technology-is-attacking-my-family/): The reality is that all media can be used for good and bad. The key for parents is to focus on both the threat from outside and the threat from inside when combating the negatives of technology. - [How Do I Know if Specific Counseling is Any Good?](https://projectpatch.org/how-do-i-know-if-specific-counseling-is-any-good/): How Do I Know if Specific Counseling is Any Good? Is it efficient, effective, and ethical? - [Comfort Over Growth](https://projectpatch.org/comfort-over-growth/): The best news is that we can learn to have a growth mindset. We can learn from athletes like Michael Jordan who practiced missed shots after games. - [Suppressing Anger](https://projectpatch.org/suppressing-anger/): When I think about things I regret as a father they nearly always are about missed opportunities and poorly expressed anger. - [Artificial Maturity](https://projectpatch.org/artificial-maturity/): Dave Ramsey caught my attention. He said that one of the hardest things to figure out as a parent of a teenager is what "age" they're dealing with at that particular moment - [Our Blog](https://projectpatch.org/our-blog/) - [Our Mission](https://projectpatch.org/about-us/) - [Christmas 2019](https://projectpatch.org/chirstmas2019/) - [Colleen Donald, M.A.](https://projectpatch.org/colleen-donald-m-a/) - [Wynter Nichols](https://projectpatch.org/wynter-nichols/) - [Chuck Hagele](https://projectpatch.org/chuck-hagele-executive-director/) - [Our Christmas Story](https://projectpatch.org/be-a-part-of-the-miracle-2-2/) - [Andy Crouch - The Tech-Wise Family (Interview)](https://projectpatch.org/andy-crouch-the-tech-wise-family-interview/): How do we raise kids that are more interested in creativity and relationships than technology. This book and interview are a first step toward solution. - [The People Pleasing Vulnerability:](https://projectpatch.org/the-people-pleasing-vulnerability/): Are you or your child suffering from people pleasing? You may be more vulnerable than you think. Learn how to find freedom and live the life you were designed to live. - [The Loneliness Vulnerability: feeling alone and under attack](https://projectpatch.org/the-loneliness-vulnerability/): Loneliness is normal yet is often exploited by those that want us addicted and helpless. Learn how to help your kids build defenses and heal this vulnerability. - [Living On Purpose: Interview with Barry Ham](https://projectpatch.org/living-on-purpose-interview-with-barry-ham/): What would it be like if you and your teen better understood the purpose of your lives. This episode goes behind the pages for the full story. - [Help, My daughter won't make a decision](https://projectpatch.org/help-my-daughter-wont-make-a-decision/): How do you help your child make a decisions when all they want to do is argue with you? - [Life After Lust - A Conversation with Forest Benedict](https://projectpatch.org/life-after-lust-a-conversation-with-forest-benedict/): This is a chance for parents to learn about recovery from porn addiction from Forest Benedict who brings a wealth of personal and professional experience. - [What's Going On With My Kid?](https://projectpatch.org/whats-going-on-with-my-kid/): How do we know when our kids need help. This episode helps us understand and connect with our kids using tools like HALT and connecting with their goals. - [Living Forward as a Parent: Interviewing Daniel Harkavy](https://projectpatch.org/living-forward-as-a-parent-an-interview-with-daniel-harkavy/): Self leadership always precedes family leadership. This episode captures how to avoid drift, set your course and put in place behaviors that will help you reach targets. - [The Counter Culture Mom: Meet Tina Griffin](https://projectpatch.org/the-counter-culture-mom-meet-tina-griffin/): An interview about raising kids in the media age. Gain clarity about Hollywood and the power of a parent that can talk about difficult things. - [Raising Porn Free Kids with Matt Dobschuetz - Part 1](https://projectpatch.org/helping-your-kids-go-porn-free-with-matt-dobshuetz-2/): Why are kids drawn into pornography? This episode of our podcast is an interview with Matt Dobschuetz of PornFreeRadio.com and looks at how porn affects kids. - [Telling the Truth](https://projectpatch.org/telling-the-truth/) - [Drifting Closer?](https://projectpatch.org/drifting-closer/) - [Connecting with Changing Kids](https://projectpatch.org/connecting-with-changing-kids/) - [Getting Closer Quicker](https://projectpatch.org/getting-closer-quicker/) - [Little Things that Change Relationships](https://projectpatch.org/little-things-that-change-relationships/) - [Podcast Short: Telling The Truth](https://projectpatch.org/short-podcast-telling-the-truth/) - [Podcast Short - Talking to Defensive Teens](https://projectpatch.org/podcast-short-talking-to-defensive-teens/) - [The Power of a Three-Second Pause](https://projectpatch.org/power-of-three-second-pause/) - [Goals that Make Me Wait](https://projectpatch.org/goals-that-make-me-wait/) - [Podcast Short - Driving vs. Being Goals](https://projectpatch.org/podcast-short-driving-vs-being-goals/) - [Blended Families with Shawn Anderson [Podcast]](https://projectpatch.org/podcast-blended-families-with-shawn-anderson/) - [No Scapegoats Allowed](https://projectpatch.org/no-scapegoats-allowed/) - [Parenting Special Needs Kids with Shawn Anderson [Podcast]](https://projectpatch.org/parenting-special-needs-kids-with-shawn-anderson-podcast/) - [Fear of Failure [Podcast]](https://projectpatch.org/fear-of-failure-podcast/) - [Love & Respect in the Family with Dr. Emerson Eggerichs [Podcast]](https://projectpatch.org/love-respect-in-the-family-with-dr-emerson-eggerichs-podcast/) - [Protecting Our Kids from Sex Trafficking with Lindsay Holmes of Shared Hope International](https://projectpatch.org/protecting-our-kids-from-sex-trafficking-with-lindsay-holmes-of-shared-hope/) - [My History Limits My Freedom](https://projectpatch.org/my-history-limits-my-freedom/) - [Read it! Book review of "Undone" by Michele Cushatt](https://projectpatch.org/read-it-book-review-of-undone-by-michele-cushatt/) - [Why I Don't Attack Hollywood [Podcast]](https://projectpatch.org/why-i-dont-attack-hollywood-podcast/) - [When Worlds Get Bigger](https://projectpatch.org/when-worlds-get-bigger/) - [John G. Miller - The Power of Accountability [Podcast]](https://projectpatch.org/john-g-miller-the-power-of-accountability-podcast/) - [Reconsidering Chastity [Podcast]](https://projectpatch.org/arleen-spenceley/) - [Restored and Remarried](https://projectpatch.org/restored-and-remarried/) - [Sharing the Undone Life with Michele Cushatt](https://projectpatch.org/sharing-the-undone-life-with-michele-cushatt/) - [Living Backstage](https://projectpatch.org/why-backstage-is-more-important-than-front-stage/) - [Getting Your Marriage Unstuck - An Interview With Dr. Barry Ham](https://projectpatch.org/getting-your-marriage-unstuck-an-interview-with-dr-barry-ham/) - [When Your Ex Gives Harmful Gifts](https://projectpatch.org/when-your-ex-gives-gifts-you-dont-want-your-kids-to-have/): What do you do when your ex gives a gift you don't want your child to have? Learn how to parent to keep your kids safe while living in the constraints of divorce. - [Raising Porn Free Kids with Matt Dobschuetz - Part 2](https://projectpatch.org/raising-porn-free-kids-part-2/): Discover how to help your kids avoid or reject pornography. Learn how to reduce their vulnerability and help them once they are hooked. ## Pages - [Home page](https://projectpatch.org/): Project Patch, Trauma Informed Residential Care for Teens 12-17 with depression, anxiety, self-harm, tech addiction, and school and relationship problems. - [Wish List](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/wishlist/): Donate to a specific project that makes a big impact on helping teens. Our Wish list contains items that are needed, but aren't part of the budget. - [PATCHworks Newsletter Request](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-newsletter-request/) - [PatchWorks Fall 2026](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-fall-2026/) - [Newsletters](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/): Project Patch publishes a newsletter to help our donors and alumni remain connected to the work we are doing. - [Employment Opportunities](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/employment-opportunities/): Looking for the best counselors, therapist, teachers, mentors and staff that want to help struggling teens thrive. A place to live and work with Christian values. - [Therapy](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/program-elements/therapy/) - [Therapy](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/girls-program-details/therapy/) - [Girls' Program](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/): Helping girls struggling with depression, anxiety, and self-harming behaviors. Partner with our Girls' Program to get the help your daughter needs. - [Boys' Program](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/): Helping boys who are angry, isolating from help, addicted to technology, and underperforming at school. Partner with us to get the help your son needs. - [Family Program](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/): Experiential retreat for the whole family. Pull together, learn to talk, disagree, appreciate differences and agree on values. Ultimate Family Vacation. - [PatchWorks Summer 2026](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-summer-2026/) - [Our History](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/our-history/) - [PROJECT PATCH RESOURCES](https://projectpatch.org/resources/) - [Internship Opportunities](https://projectpatch.org/internship-opportunities/) - [PatchWorks Spring 2026](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-spring-2026/) - [Parent Brochure Tri Fold](https://projectpatch.org/parent-brochure-tri-fold/) - [Restoring Hope 2026](https://projectpatch.org/restoring-hope-2026/) - [Parent Resources](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/parent-resources/) - [Recommended Books & Resources](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/recommended-books/): Books and resources that have influenced our programs and seminars. - [Parenting Books](https://projectpatch.org/recommended-books/): Books and resources that have influenced our programs and seminars. - [Girls' Program Details](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/girls-program-details/) - [Frequently Asked Questions](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/frequently-asked-questions-2/) - [Boys' Program - Tricare Insurance](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program-tricare/): Helping boys who are angry, isolating from help, addicted to technology, and underperforming at school. We accept Tricare to help military families thrive. - [• PROJECT PATCH GIRLS' PROGRAM •](https://projectpatch.org/girlsprogram/) - [• ADMISSIONS PROCESS •](https://projectpatch.org/admissions/) - [Financial Information](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/apply-today/financial-information/): Financial aid, Need-based sliding scale, insurance accepted, Medicaid, Tricare. Donors support. Learn more about Financial Information. - [Replanted Conference](https://projectpatch.org/replanted-conference/) - [Speaking/Seminars](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/): Creating supportive communities prepared to help children, teens, and families thrive. Topics: Tech-safe kids, mentoring, motivating teens, and grand parenting. - [Concerns and Suggestions](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/concerns-and-suggestions/) - [PatchWorks Fall 2025](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-fall-2025/): This issue of the PatchWorks newsletter captures story of Anyna and her transformational Maranatha Volunteer Experience. Learn how free time can be therapeutic. - [Banner QR Code](https://projectpatch.org/banner-qr-code/) - [Contact Information Update](https://projectpatch.org/update/) - [Maranatha Volunteer Project](https://projectpatch.org/maranatha/): Join Maranatha Volunteers International on May 17 - June 2, 2023, as they continue their amazing work on our Idaho campus. - [PatchWorks Summer 2025](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-summer-2025/) - [FIVE LIFE SKILLS](https://projectpatch.org/lifeskills/) - [Gift Card Drawing](https://projectpatch.org/drawing/) - [PatchWorks Spring 2025](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-spring-2025/) - [• CAMPUS TOUR •](https://projectpatch.org/campustour/): Nestled in a secluded valley, surrounded by mountains, and bordered by a scenic river, this 169-acre facility is the perfect environment for healing. - [Apply Today](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/apply-today/) - [Remembering Tom Sanford](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/remembering-tom-sanford/) - [Tom Sanford Memorial Live Stream](https://projectpatch.org/tom-sanford-memorial-live-stream/) - [My Next Step](https://projectpatch.org/next-step-response/) - [PatchWorks Fall 2024](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-fall-2024/) - [Board of Directors](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/board-of-directors/) - [PatchWorks Summer 2024](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-summer-2024/) - [About Us](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/): We know the power of restored hope and work to bring hope and renewed futures to teens, families, and communities. - [Life Ready Media Release](https://projectpatch.org/life-ready-media-release/) - [Privacy Notice](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/privacy-notice/) - [Does Project Patch Work?](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/does-project-patch-work/) - [Outdoor Therapeutic Program](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/girls-program-details/outdoor-therapeutic-program/) - [Memories for the 40th Anniversary](https://projectpatch.org/memories/) - [PatchWorks Spring 2024](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-spring-2024/) - [Support Patch](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/) - [Living Hope Church Pre-Registration](https://projectpatch.org/living-hope-registration/) - [• GOOD FAITH ESTIMATE •](https://projectpatch.org/good-faith-estimate-notice/) - [PatchWorks Fall 2023](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-fall-2023/) - [Alumni Spotlight Stories](https://projectpatch.org/alumni-spotlight-stories/) - [Register](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/register/) - [Impacting Teens: Creating Relationships that Transform](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/impacting-teens-creating-relationships-that-transform/) - [Life Ready Kids](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/life-ready-kids/) - [Raising Tech Safe Kids](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/raising-tech-safe-kids/) - [Past Seminars and Speaking Appointments](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/past-seminars-and-speaking-appointments/) - [Leadership & Key Staff](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/leadership-team/) - [LICENSE & ACCREDITATIONS](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/licenses-and-accreditation/) - [Our Staff](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/our-staff/): We hire committed Christians who will keep kids physically and emotionally safe, offer consistency, and be involved in the teens' activities and lives. - [Honoring Harlan R. Gephart](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/honoring-harlan-r-gephart/) - [Dr. Phil](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/dr-phil/): What happened after "Danielle" was on the Dr. Phil Show? She took full advantage of her fresh start and accomplished personal and scholastic growth during her 14 month stay. - [](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/8628-2/) - [PatchWorks Summer 2023](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-summer-2023/) - [Honoring Irwin Rogers](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/honoring-irwin-rogers/) - [PatchWorks Summer 2021](https://projectpatch.org/patchworks-summer-2021/) - [PatchWorks Spring 2023](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/patchworks-spring-2023/) - [Daily Schedule](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/typical-day/daily-schedule/) - [Meet the Writer](https://projectpatch.org/blog/meet-the-writer/): I hope you enjoy this blog and find it useful as you implement positive changes in your Home. It's never easy but as we grow, our kids grow. - [Join Us In Prayer](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/join-us-in-prayer/) - [Education](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/girls-program-details/education/) - [PatchWorks Fall 2022](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/patchworks-fall-2022/): Newsletter for Project Patch - Learn what is happening to help hurting teens and families. - [Alumni Spotlight - Lukas Hagen](https://projectpatch.org/lukas/): A poem by a Project Patch resident exploring her search for spiritual answers. - [Education](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/program-elements/education/) - [Life Ready Kids: Tough Topics](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/life-ready-kids-tough-topics/) - [PatchWorks Summer 2022](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/patchworks-summer-2022/): Newsletter for Project Patch - Learn what is happening to help hurting teens and families. - [Testimonials](https://projectpatch.org/testimony/) - [Patch Testimonials](https://projectpatch.org/patch-testimonials/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/the-family-experience/) - [Information Request](https://projectpatch.org/information-request/) - [Josh Gives, Will You?](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/josh-gives-will-you/): Josh thought he was alone but never was. Project patch was is thankful to be a part of this story of restoration. Josh now gives to back, knowing he is a small part of someone else's success. - [Donation FAQ](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/donation-faq/) - [Patchworks Summer 2019](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/patchworks-summer-2019/): Newsletter for Project Patch - Learn what is happening to help hurting teens and families. - [PatchWorks Spring 2022](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/patchworks-spring-2022/): Newsletter for Project Patch - Learn what is happening to help hurting teens and families. - [PatchWorks Spring 2021](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/patchworks-spring-2021/): Newsletter for Project Patch - Learn what is happening to help hurting teens and families. - [PatchWorks Spring 2020](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/patchworks-spring-2020/): Newsletter for Project Patch - Learn what is happening to help hurting teens and families. - [Patchworks Fall 2018](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/patchworks-fall-2018/): Newsletter for Project Patch - Learn what is happening to help hurting teens and families. - [if she didn't do something soon, she was going to lose her daughter.](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/she-was-going-to-lose-her-daugher/) - [Life Ready Kids Video Series](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/life-ready-kids-video-series/) - [Australia Tour 2022](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/australiatour/) - [Honoring Harlan R. Gephart](https://projectpatch.org/harlan/) - [Testimonials-0ld](https://projectpatch.org/testimonials/) - [Contact Us Form](https://projectpatch.org/contact-us-form/) - [Contact Us](https://projectpatch.org/contact-us/) - [Subscribe to PATCHworks](https://projectpatch.org/subscribe-to-patchworks/) - [Frequently Asked Questions](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/frequently-asked-questions/) - [Family Program - FAQ](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/family-program-faq/) - [Volunteer](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/volunteer/): Meaningful volunteer opportunities to help fulfill the mission of Project Patch. Positions in Vancouver, WA, Goldendale, WA and Garden Valley, ID. - [Typical Day](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/typical-day/) - [Typical Day](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/typical-day/) - [](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/country-cross-benefit-concert/): Join us for night of country and Christian music, stories and hope. A night to raise awareness and support Project Patch in their work to help hurting teens and families. - [Door Prize Entry Form](https://projectpatch.org/door-prize-entry-form/) - [Join with Project Patch in celebrating our community!](https://projectpatch.org/celebration/) - [Take A Tour](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/typical-day/take-a-tour/) - [Boys' Program Details](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/program-elements/) - [Project Patch](https://projectpatch.org/youth-programs/): Residential program for teens struggling with depression, anxiety, and self-harming behaviors. Individual and group therapy, DBT, school, and Spiritual Growth. - [GivingDay2021](https://projectpatch.org/givingday2021/) - [Donor Dashboard](https://projectpatch.org/donor-dashboard-3/) - [Donor Dashboard](https://projectpatch.org/donor-dashboard-2/) - [Donor Dashboard](https://projectpatch.org/donor-dashboard/) - [Host a Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/hosting-a-family-experience/) - [Attend a Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/family-experience/) - [Tom's Legacy](https://projectpatch.org/toms-legacy/) - [Most Popular Posts](https://projectpatch.org/most-popular-posts/) - [Prayer Request Form](https://projectpatch.org/prayer-request-form/) - [DBT](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/girls-program-details/therapy/dbt/) - [Invite Chuck to Present](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/invite-chuck-to-present/) - [How It Works](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/how-it-works/) - [Positive Activity](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/program-elements/recreation/) - [Residential Life](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/program-elements/residential-life/) - [Community Service](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/girls-program-details/community-service/) - [Faith](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/girls-program-details/faith/) - [Apply Today](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/apply-today/) - [Faith](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/program-elements/faith/) - [Video for Colleen](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/video-for-colleen/) - [WayFM - Family](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/wayfm-family/) - [Webinar Registration](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/webinar-registration/) - [NWMinCon 2020](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/nwmincon/) - [Shop](https://projectpatch.org/shop/) - [Shop](https://projectpatch.org/shop/) - [I Can't Do It](https://projectpatch.org/icant/) - [A Christmas Story of Light](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/a-christmas-story-of-light/) - [Patchworks Spring 2017](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/newsletters-and-brochures/patchworks-spring-2017/) - [Daily Schedule](https://projectpatch.org/boys-program/daily-schedule/) - [Donation Confirmation](https://projectpatch.org/donation-confirmation/) - [Donation Failed](https://projectpatch.org/donation-failed/) - [Donation History](https://projectpatch.org/donation-history/) - [Giving Back with Songs and Pictures](https://projectpatch.org/giving-back-with-songs-and-pictures/) - [Remembering Anna Wells](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/remembering-anna-wells/) - [God-Shaped Hole: A poem by Project Patch Resident](https://projectpatch.org/god-shaped-hole/): A poem by a Project Patch resident exploring her search for spiritual answers. - [Our Team](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/our-staff/our-team/) - [Refresh 2018](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/refresh-2018/) - [](https://projectpatch.org/support-patch/3420-2/) - [Test Blog](https://projectpatch.org/test-blog/) - [Getting Started Online](https://projectpatch.org/online/) - [Blog](https://projectpatch.org/blog-2/) - [Blog](https://projectpatch.org/blog/) - [Envoy Presentation](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/envoy-presentation/): Books and resources that have influenced our programs and seminars. - [Family Experience Calendar](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/family-experience-calendar/) - [Recreation](https://projectpatch.org/girls-program/girls-program-details/recreation/) - [Girls Dorm](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/see-our-campus/) - [Covenant Eyes](https://projectpatch.org/speakingseminars/covenant-eyes/) - [YMCA](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/ymca/) - [Family Experience Pricing](https://projectpatch.org/family-program/register/family-experience-pricing/) - [Staff Qualification](https://projectpatch.org/about-us-2/our-staff/staff-qualification/) ## Products - [Wounded Healer](https://projectpatch.org/product/wounded-healer/) - [Life Ready Kids Video Series](https://projectpatch.org/product/life-ready-kids-series/) - [Parenting Stuborn Kids e-Book](https://projectpatch.org/product/parenting-stuborn-kids-e-book/) ## Venues - [Thornleigh Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/thornleigh-adventist-church/) - [Wahroonga Adventist School](https://projectpatch.org/venue/wahroonga-seventh-day-adventist-church/) - [Elmore Events Centre](https://projectpatch.org/venue/elmore-events-centre/) - [The Compass Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/the-compass-church/) - [Stoneham Memorial SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/stoneham-memorial-sda-church/) - [Meadow Glade SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/meadowglade-sda-church/) - [Adventist Alpine Village](https://projectpatch.org/venue/adventist-alpine-village/) - [Living Hope Seventh-Day Adventist Community Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/living-hope-sda-church/) - [Central Point SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/central-point-sda-church/) - [Eastside Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/eastside-church/) - [Riverview Advenist Chuch](https://projectpatch.org/venue/riverview-advenist-chuch/) - [River Canyon Retreat](https://projectpatch.org/venue/river-canyon-retreat/) - [McMinnville SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/mcminnville-sda-church/) - [Crossroads Bible Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/crossroads-bible-church/) - [Fletcher Academy](https://projectpatch.org/venue/fletcher-academy/) - [Tampa Convention Center](https://projectpatch.org/venue/tampa-convention-center/) - [Reedy Creek Seventh-day Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/reedy-creek-seventh-day-adventist-church/) - [Logan Reserve Seventh-day Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/logan-reserve-seventh-day-adventist-church/) - [Lewis County Adventist School](https://projectpatch.org/venue/lewis-county-adventist-school/): A workshop for parents and teens to discover how to become tech smart while avoiding online traps. - [Collegedale Academy Auditorium](https://projectpatch.org/venue/collegedale-academy-auditorium/) - [Sandy Seventh-day Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/sandy-sda-church/) - [Highland View Christian School](https://projectpatch.org/venue/butte-adventist-church/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [College View Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/college-view-church/) - [Arlington SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/arlington-sda-church/) - [Medford SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/medford-sda-church/) - [Wheaton Bible Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/wheaton-bible-church/): Chuck Hagele will be leading four breakouts focused on helping foster and adoptive parents face struggles with their children. - [McCormick Place](https://projectpatch.org/venue/mccormick-place/) - [Walla Walla Valley Academy](https://projectpatch.org/venue/walla-walla-valley-academy/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Anthem Church - Hayden Lake](https://projectpatch.org/venue/anthem-church-hayden-lake/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Zull Hall - Oregon Conference](https://projectpatch.org/venue/zull-hall-oregon-conference/): Chuck will be teaching Pathfinder leaders from the Oregon Conference about development, rapport building, and encouraging developing of positive behavior. - [Solid Rock Teen Center](https://projectpatch.org/venue/solid-rock-teen-center/): Chuck will be teaching at the Rock Solid Community Teen Center about brains and brain health. - [Billings Seventh-day Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/billings-seventh-day-adventist-church/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [The Opryland Hotel](https://projectpatch.org/venue/the-opryland-hotel/): Project Patch will be in Nashville for AACC. We'd love to see you there at booth 618 - [Yellow Box - Community Christian Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/yellow-box-community-christian-church/): Chuck Hagele will be leading two breakouts. One on Siblings and another with Tamara Bolthouse on "Out of Home Care for Hurting Kids" - [Young Life - Washington Family Ranch](https://projectpatch.org/venue/young-life-washington-family-ranch/) - [Project Patch Family Center](https://projectpatch.org/venue/project-patch-family-center/) - [Rogue Valley Adventist Academy](https://projectpatch.org/venue/rogue-valley-adventist-academy/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Great lakes Adventist Academy](https://projectpatch.org/venue/great-lakes-adventist-academy/): This week of free workshop helps you raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [North Cascade Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/north-cascade-adventist-church/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [First Baptist Church Event Center](https://projectpatch.org/venue/first-baptist-church-event-center/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Overlake Christian Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/overlake-christian-church/) - [Heartlight Ministries](https://projectpatch.org/venue/heartlight-ministries/) - [JW Marriot Tucson Starr Pass Resort and Spa](https://projectpatch.org/venue/jw-marriot-tucson-starr-pass-resort-and-spa/) - [Adventist Community Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/adventist-community-church/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Oregon City highschool](https://projectpatch.org/venue/oregon-city-highschool/): Join Project Patch at the Family Focus Forum sponsored by Oregon City School District. The FREE premier workshops with over 20 choices for issues related to all ages. - [Westin La Paloma Resort & Spa](https://projectpatch.org/venue/westin-la-paloma-resort-spa/) - [Woodburn SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/venue/woodburn-sda-church/) - [Project Patch Youth Program](https://projectpatch.org/venue/project-patch-youth-program/) - [Royal Oaks Country Club](https://projectpatch.org/venue/royal-oaks-country-club/) ## Organizers - [Victoria Conference of SDA](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/victoria-conference-of-sda/) - [Stoneham Memorial SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/stoneham-memorial-sda-church/) - [Meadow Glade SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/meadowglad-sda-church/) - [Greater Sydney Conference of SDA](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/greater-sydney-conference-of-sda/) - [Living Hope Seventh-Day Adventist Community Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/living-hope-sda-church/) - [Riverview Advenist Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/riverview-advenist-church/) - [Honestly Adoption Company](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/honestly-adoption-company/) - [Replanted](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/replanted/): Chuck will be leading four breakouts focused on helping foster and adoptive parents face struggles with their children. - [GYC Norhwest](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/gyc-norhwest/) - [National Youth Workers Convention](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/national-youth-workers-convention/) - [NATSAP](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/natsap-2/) - [M Sky Media](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/m-sky-media/) - [Lewis County Adventist School](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/lewis-county-adventist-school/): A workshop for parents and teens to discover how to become tech smart while avoiding online traps. - [Collegedale SDA Foundations](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/collegedale-sda-foundations/) - [Medford SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/medford-sda-church/) - [Highland View Christian School/Butte Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/butte-adventist-church/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Union College Campus Ministries](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/union-college-campus-ministries/) - [Walla Walla Valley Academy](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/walla-walla-valley-academy/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Billings Seventh-day Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/billings-seventh-day-adventist-church/): Free seminar designed to help parents raise kids to who are ready to thrive in a world of technology despite threats like pornography, video games and social media. - [Anthem Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/anthem-church/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Oregon Conference Pathfinders](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/oregon-conference-pathfinders/): Chuck will be teaching Pathfinder leaders from the Oregon Conference about development, rapport building, and encouraging developing of positive behavior. - [Rocksolid Community Teen Center](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/rocksolid-community-teen-center/): Chuck will be teaching at the Rock Solid Community Teen Center about brains and brain health. - [AACC](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/aacc/): Project Patch will be in Nashville for AACC. We'd love to see you there at booth 618 - [Refresh Chicago](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/refresh-chicago/): Chuck Hagele will be leading two breakouts. One on Siblings and another with Tamara Bolthouse on "Out of Home Care for Hurting Kids" - [Oregon Conference of SDA](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/oregon-conference-of-sda/) - [North Cascade Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/north-cascade-adventist-church/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Rogue Valley Adventist Academy](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/rogue-valley-adventist-academy/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Michigan Conference of SDA](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/michigan-conference-of-sda/): This week of free workshop helps you raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Skagit Adventist School](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/skagit-adventist-school/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Jouney Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/jouney-church/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Refresh](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/refresh/) - [Northwest Min Con](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/northwest-min-con/) - [The Envoy Group](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/the-envoy-group/) - [Adventi](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/adventi/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [NATSAP](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/natsap/) - [Oregon City School District](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/oregon-city-school-district/): Join Project Patch at the Family Focus Forum sponsored by Oregon City School District. The FREE premier workshops with over 20 choices for issues related to all ages. - [Project Patch](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/project-patch/) - [North America Division of Seventh-day Adventists](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/north-america-division-of-seventh-day-adventists/) - [Woodburn SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/organizer/woodburn-sda-church/) ## Events - [Thornleigh Adventist Church: Belonging and Connecting](https://projectpatch.org/event/thornleigh-adventist-church-belonging-and-connecting/) - [Building Strong Hearts at Home](https://projectpatch.org/event/building-strong-hearts-at-home/) - [Replanted Preconference: Helping Impulsive Kids Make Better Decisions](https://projectpatch.org/event/replanted-preconference-helping-impulsive-kids-make-better-decisions/) - [Victoria Conference Big Camp 2026](https://projectpatch.org/event/victoria-conference-big-camp-2026/) - [Replanted Conference](https://projectpatch.org/event/replanted-conference/) - [Life Ready Kids Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/event/life-ready-kids-seminar/) - [Meadow Glade Health Conference](https://projectpatch.org/event/meadowglade-health-conference/) - [Meadow Glade Adventist Elementary School](https://projectpatch.org/event/meadow-glade-adventist-elementary-school/) - [Greater Sydney Conference Big Camp 2025](https://projectpatch.org/event/greater-sydney-conference-big-camp-2025/) - [Tom Sanford Memorial Service](https://projectpatch.org/event/tom-sanford-memorial-service/) - [Washington 40th Celebration](https://projectpatch.org/event/washington-40th-celebration/) - [Patch Staff Reunion](https://projectpatch.org/event/patch-staff-reunion/) - [Idaho 40th Celebration](https://projectpatch.org/event/idaho-40th-celebration/) - [Life Ready Kids: Growing Up Tech Smart](https://projectpatch.org/event/livinghopesda/) - [Central Point SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/event/centralpoint/) - [Northwest Ministries Convention 2023](https://projectpatch.org/event/northwest-ministries-convention-2023/) - [Reno Nevada - Riverview Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/event/reno-nevada-rivewview-adventist-church/) - [Replanted Conference - Chicago](https://projectpatch.org/event/refresh-conference-chicago-2-2-2/): Chuck will be leading four breakouts focused on helping foster and adoptive parents face struggles with their children. - [NATSAP Leadership Summit](https://projectpatch.org/event/natsap-leadership-summit-2-2/) - [Australia - Life Ready Kids Tour](https://projectpatch.org/event/australia-life-ready-kids-tour-2/) - [Northwest Ministries Convention 2022](https://projectpatch.org/event/northwest-ministries-convention2022/) - [The Insight Virtual Conference](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-insight-virtual-conference/) - [McMinnville SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/event/mcminnville-sda-church/) - [Alumni Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/girls-program-alumni-weekend-4-2-2-3-2/) - [NATSAP Leadership Summit](https://projectpatch.org/event/natsap-leadership-summit-2/) - [Replanted Conference - Chicago](https://projectpatch.org/event/refresh-conference-chicago-2-2/): Chuck will be leading four breakouts focused on helping foster and adoptive parents face struggles with their children. - [Replanted Virtual Conference](https://projectpatch.org/event/replanted-virtual-conference/) - [(Postponed) The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-12-2-2-2-2-2-2-2/) - [Boys Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/girls-program-alumni-weekend-4-2-2-3/) - [Australia "Life Ready Kids" Tour](https://projectpatch.org/event/australia-life-ready-kids-tour/) - [2020 GYC-NW Convention](https://projectpatch.org/event/2020-gyc-nw-convention/) - [Northwest Ministries Convention10:](https://projectpatch.org/event/northwest-ministries-convention10/) - [Fletcher Academy Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/fletcher-academy-weekend/) - [NYWC - Mini Session "The Youth Mental Health Crisis: It's time to talk"](https://projectpatch.org/event/nywc-mini-session-the-youth-mental-health-crisis-its-time-to-talk/) - [NATSAP Leadership Summit](https://projectpatch.org/event/natsap-leadership-summit/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-12-2-2-2-2-2-2/) - [Growing Up Tech Smart: Family Workshop - Chehalis, WA](https://projectpatch.org/event/chehalis/): A workshop for parents and teens to discover how to become tech smart while avoiding online traps. - [Life Ready Kids - Reedy Creek Seventh-Day Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/event/life-ready-kids-logan-reserve-seventh-day-adventist-church-2/) - [Life Ready Kids - Logan Reserve Seventh-Day Adventist Church](https://projectpatch.org/event/life-ready-kids-logan-reserve-seventh-day-adventist-church/) - [Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/girls-program-alumni-weekend-4-2-2/) - [Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/girls-program-alumni-weekend-4-2/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-12-2-2-2-2-2/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-12-2-2-2-2/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-12-2-2-2/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-12-2-2/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-12-2/) - [Union College/ College View Academy](https://projectpatch.org/event/union/) - [Growing Up Tech Smart - Collegedale, TN](https://projectpatch.org/event/growing-up-tech-smart-collegedale-tn/2019-01-11/) - [Medford SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/event/medford-sda-church/) - [Growing Up Tech Smart: Family Workshop - Sandy Oregon](https://projectpatch.org/event/sandy-sda-church/): A workshop for parents and teens to discover how to become tech smart while avoiding online traps. - [Raising Tech Safe Kids Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/event/raising-tech-safe-kids-seminar-5-2/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Arlington SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/event/arlington-sda-church/) - [Refresh Conference - Chicago](https://projectpatch.org/event/refresh-conference-chicago-2/): Chuck will be leading four breakouts focused on helping foster and adoptive parents face struggles with their children. - [NAD Teachers Convention: Breakout Session](https://projectpatch.org/event/nad-teachers-convention-breakout-session/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-10/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-11/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-12/) - [Raising Tech Safe Kids](https://projectpatch.org/event/raising-tech-safe-kids/2018-01-18/): Free seminar designed to help parents raise kids to who are ready to thrive in a world of technology despite threats like pornography, video games and social media. - [Private - Rock Solid Community Teen Center](https://projectpatch.org/event/private-rock-solid-community-teen-center/): Chuck will be teaching at the Rock Solid Community Teen Center about brains and brain health. - [Walla Walla Valley Academy- Raising Tech Safe Kids Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/event/walla-walla-valley-academy-raising-tech-safe-kids-seminar/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Raising Tech Safe Kids Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/event/raising-tech-safe-kids-seminar-5/2018-01-26/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Private - Pathfinder Leadership Training](https://projectpatch.org/event/private-pathfinder-leadership-training/): Chuck will be teaching Pathfinder leaders from the Oregon Conference about development, rapport building, and encouraging developing of positive behavior. - [Boys' Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/boys-alumni-weekend-3/) - [Boys' Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/boys-alumni-weekend-2/) - [Girls' Program Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/girls-program-alumni-weekend-4/) - [American Association of Christian Counselors](https://projectpatch.org/event/american-association-of-christian-counselors/): Project Patch will be in Nashville for AACC. We'd love to see you there at booth 618 - [Girls' Program Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/girls-program-alumni-weekend-3/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-7/) - [Refresh Conference - Chicago](https://projectpatch.org/event/refresh-conference-chicago/): Chuck Hagele will be leading two breakouts. One on Siblings and another with Tamara Bolthouse on "Out of Home Care for Hurting Kids" - [Oregon Conference Youth Bible Camp](https://projectpatch.org/event/oregon-conference-youth-bible-camp/) - [Rogue Valley Adventist Academy- Raising Tech Safe Kids Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/event/raising-tech-safe-kids-seminar-4/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Raising Tech Safe Kids Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/event/raising-tech-safe-kids-seminar-3/): This week of free workshop helps you raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Raising Tech Safe Kids Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/event/raising-tech-safe-kids-seminar-2/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Raising Tech Safe Kids Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/event/raising-tech-safe-kids-seminar/): This free workshop helps parents raise kids in the world of technology. Learn the risks your child faces online as well as tools to prepare them for life. - [Family Focus Forum](https://projectpatch.org/event/family-focus-forum/): Join Project Patch at the Family Focus Forum sponsored by Oregon City School District. The FREE premier workshops with over 20 choices for issues related to all ages. - [Refresh Conference](https://projectpatch.org/event/refresh-conference/) - [Northwest Ministry Convention](https://projectpatch.org/event/northwest-ministry-convention/) - [The Envoy Group - Refer & Share Network Event](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-envoy-group-refer-share-network-event/) - [Boys' Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/boys-alumni-weekend/) - [Girls' Program Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/girls-program-alumni-weekend-2/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-6/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-4/) - [The Family Experience - SOLD OUT](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-3/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience-2/) - [The Family Experience](https://projectpatch.org/event/the-family-experience/) - [NATSAP Annual Conference](https://projectpatch.org/event/natsap-annual-conference/) - [Girls' Program Alumni Weekend](https://projectpatch.org/event/girls-program-alumni-weekend/) - [Woodburn SDA Church](https://projectpatch.org/event/woodburn-sda-church/) - [NAD Ministry Convention](https://projectpatch.org/event/nad-ministry-convention/) ## Team - [Jill White, MFT Intern](https://projectpatch.org/team/jill-white/) - [Trina Omorefe, LMSW](https://projectpatch.org/team/trina-omorefe-lmsw/) - [Steve Sanders, LMSW](https://projectpatch.org/team/steve-sanders-lmsw/) - [Ron Terrall](https://projectpatch.org/team/ron-terrall/) - [Dana Kalac](https://projectpatch.org/team/dana-kalac-2/) - [Asher Van Dyk, MSW Intern](https://projectpatch.org/team/asher-van-dyk-msw-intern/) - [Kimberly Salinas, LMSW](https://projectpatch.org/team/kimberly-salinas-lmsw/) - [Stacie Karlinsey, LCSW](https://projectpatch.org/team/stacie-karlinsey-lcsw/) - [Deonna Hollist](https://projectpatch.org/team/deonna-hollist/) - [John Baudoin, TBRI® Practitioner](https://projectpatch.org/team/john-baudoin/) - [Terry Grimm](https://projectpatch.org/team/terry-grimm/) - [Kari Wallingford](https://projectpatch.org/team/kari-wallingford/) - [Wynter Nichols, EA, LTC](https://projectpatch.org/team/wynter-nichols/) - [Chuck Hagele, MBA](https://projectpatch.org/team/chuck-hagele/) - [Stephanie Ross, LMSW](https://projectpatch.org/team/stephanie-ross/) - [Winfred Scott, LCSW](https://projectpatch.org/team/winfred-scott/) ## Slides - [TRIPLE your impact!](https://projectpatch.org/slide/triple-your-impact/) - [.](https://projectpatch.org/slide/rainbow/) - [Dr Phil](https://projectpatch.org/slide/dr-phil/) - [Life Ready Kids](https://projectpatch.org/slide/life-ready-kids/) ## Projects - [Girls' Dorm](https://projectpatch.org/portfolio/girls-dorm/) ## Series - [Life Ready Families](https://projectpatch.org/series/life-ready-families/) - [Raising Tech Safe Kids Seminar](https://projectpatch.org/series/raising-tech-safe-kids-seminar/) - [Growing Up Tech Smart - Collegedale, TN](https://projectpatch.org/series/growing-up-tech-smart-collegedale-tn/) ## Tags - [parenting](https://projectpatch.org/tag/parenting/) - [teenagers](https://projectpatch.org/tag/teenagers/) - [teens](https://projectpatch.org/tag/teens/) - [anger](https://projectpatch.org/tag/anger/) - [discipline](https://projectpatch.org/tag/discipline/) - [comfort zone](https://projectpatch.org/tag/comfort-zone/) - [growth](https://projectpatch.org/tag/growth/) - [self-improvement](https://projectpatch.org/tag/self-improvement/) - [counseling](https://projectpatch.org/tag/counseling/) - [therapy](https://projectpatch.org/tag/therapy/) - [family](https://projectpatch.org/tag/family/) - [internet](https://projectpatch.org/tag/internet/) - [safety](https://projectpatch.org/tag/safety/) - [social media](https://projectpatch.org/tag/social-media/) - [technology](https://projectpatch.org/tag/technology/) - [marriage](https://projectpatch.org/tag/marriage/) - [mentoring](https://projectpatch.org/tag/mentoring/) - [relationships](https://projectpatch.org/tag/relationships/) - [children](https://projectpatch.org/tag/children/) - [kids](https://projectpatch.org/tag/kids/) - [communication](https://projectpatch.org/tag/communication/) - [parents](https://projectpatch.org/tag/parents/) - [challenges](https://projectpatch.org/tag/challenges/) - [change](https://projectpatch.org/tag/change/) - [professional life](https://projectpatch.org/tag/professional-life/) - [work](https://projectpatch.org/tag/work/) - [christianity](https://projectpatch.org/tag/christianity/) - [love](https://projectpatch.org/tag/love/) - [coworkers](https://projectpatch.org/tag/coworkers/) - [home](https://projectpatch.org/tag/home/) - [community](https://projectpatch.org/tag/community/) - [Grandparents](https://projectpatch.org/tag/grandparents/) - [Family Activities](https://projectpatch.org/tag/family-activities/) - [family volunteering](https://projectpatch.org/tag/family-volunteering/) - [mission](https://projectpatch.org/tag/mission/) - [genogram](https://projectpatch.org/tag/genogram/) - [Friendship](https://projectpatch.org/tag/friendship/) - [Positve Life](https://projectpatch.org/tag/positve-life/) - [Affirmations](https://projectpatch.org/tag/affirmations/) - [Emotional kids](https://projectpatch.org/tag/emotional-kids/) - [flying with kids](https://projectpatch.org/tag/flying-with-kids/) - [goal setting](https://projectpatch.org/tag/goal-setting/) - [Pornography](https://projectpatch.org/tag/pornography/) - [Holidays](https://projectpatch.org/tag/holidays/) - [Inlaws](https://projectpatch.org/tag/inlaws/) - [fear](https://projectpatch.org/tag/fear/) - [Apology](https://projectpatch.org/tag/apology/) - [Arguments](https://projectpatch.org/tag/arguments/) - [assumptions](https://projectpatch.org/tag/assumptions/) - [personality](https://projectpatch.org/tag/personality/) - [consequences](https://projectpatch.org/tag/consequences/) - [ignoring](https://projectpatch.org/tag/ignoring/) - [listening](https://projectpatch.org/tag/listening/) - [addiction](https://projectpatch.org/tag/addiction/) - [addictions](https://projectpatch.org/tag/addictions/) - [short cuts](https://projectpatch.org/tag/short-cuts/) - [bad dreams](https://projectpatch.org/tag/bad-dreams/) - [bedtime](https://projectpatch.org/tag/bedtime/) - [child](https://projectpatch.org/tag/child/) - [kid](https://projectpatch.org/tag/kid/) - [nightmares](https://projectpatch.org/tag/nightmares/) - [choices](https://projectpatch.org/tag/choices/) - [decision making](https://projectpatch.org/tag/decision-making/) - [options](https://projectpatch.org/tag/options/) - [adventure](https://projectpatch.org/tag/adventure/) - [conversation](https://projectpatch.org/tag/conversation/) - [family stories](https://projectpatch.org/tag/family-stories/) - [share](https://projectpatch.org/tag/share/) - [tales](https://projectpatch.org/tag/tales/) - [balance](https://projectpatch.org/tag/balance/) - [chaos](https://projectpatch.org/tag/chaos/) - [habits](https://projectpatch.org/tag/habits/) - [life skills](https://projectpatch.org/tag/life-skills/) - [success](https://projectpatch.org/tag/success/) - [traits](https://projectpatch.org/tag/traits/) - [attitude](https://projectpatch.org/tag/attitude/) - [losing](https://projectpatch.org/tag/losing/) - [sportsmanship](https://projectpatch.org/tag/sportsmanship/) - [winning](https://projectpatch.org/tag/winning/) - [donate](https://projectpatch.org/tag/donate/) - [support](https://projectpatch.org/tag/support/) - [Failure](https://projectpatch.org/tag/failure/) - [Lose](https://projectpatch.org/tag/lose/) - [Losers](https://projectpatch.org/tag/losers/) - [Win](https://projectpatch.org/tag/win/) - [manipulation](https://projectpatch.org/tag/manipulation/) - [negotiation](https://projectpatch.org/tag/negotiation/) - [good decisions](https://projectpatch.org/tag/good-decisions/) - [poor decisions](https://projectpatch.org/tag/poor-decisions/) - [reality](https://projectpatch.org/tag/reality/) - [Life Ready Kids](https://projectpatch.org/tag/life-ready-kids/) - [nervous laugh](https://projectpatch.org/tag/nervous-laugh/) - [nervous laughter](https://projectpatch.org/tag/nervous-laughter/) - [don't talk to strangers](https://projectpatch.org/tag/dont-talk-to-strangers/) - [stranger danger](https://projectpatch.org/tag/stranger-danger/) - [talk to strangers](https://projectpatch.org/tag/talk-to-strangers/) - [generosity](https://projectpatch.org/tag/generosity/) - [giving](https://projectpatch.org/tag/giving/) - [embarrassing moments](https://projectpatch.org/tag/embarrassing-moments/) - [emotional reaction](https://projectpatch.org/tag/emotional-reaction/) - [humor](https://projectpatch.org/tag/humor/) - [laugh at yourself](https://projectpatch.org/tag/laugh-at-yourself/) - [laughing](https://projectpatch.org/tag/laughing/) - [Faith Affirmations](https://projectpatch.org/tag/faith-affirmations/) - [Guest Post](https://projectpatch.org/tag/guest-post/) - [Man of Faith](https://projectpatch.org/tag/man-of-faith/) - [Noah Movie](https://projectpatch.org/tag/noah-movie/) - [Strong Father](https://projectpatch.org/tag/strong-father/) - [debt](https://projectpatch.org/tag/debt/) - 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